Tell Mendus what happened. You get an honest breakdown of both sides — who has a point where, and what to say next.
Mendus is an AI conflict mediator for couples, families, friends, and coworkers. You describe a conflict in your own words, upload screenshots of the conversation, or invite the other person by link so each side writes their own version separately. Mendus returns a verdict split by percentage across both sides, scores for communication and empathy, a Chance of Improvement, and concrete steps and phrases for the conversation that follows.
Write what happened, in your own words. No forms, no rating yourself. Messy is fine.
Invite your partner by link so they write their version without seeing yours — or just upload screenshots of the chat.
A percentage split across both sides, communication and empathy scores, Chance of Improvement, and specific things to say next.
Work through it alone. You describe the situation, and Mendus shows you the strong parts of your position — and the blind spots you'd rather not look at.
Upload screenshots of the conversation. Mendus reads the actual exchange and breaks down who was right about what.
Send your partner a link. Each of you writes your own version without seeing the other's. Mendus delivers one verdict to both of you.
In a fight, both people are busy defending. Nobody is really listening, and retelling it later only adds another layer of distortion. Mendus hears both versions in full, at the same time, without a favorite — and it does it in a minute, not next Thursday. Sometimes that's enough to see the argument was about something else entirely.
| Keeping it in | Costs nothing today, but the same fight tends to come back later, bigger. |
| Advice from friends | Warm and free, but they're on your side by default — that's what friends are for, and it's why it rarely changes anything. |
| Couples therapy | The deepest work of the four, with a real professional — and also the most expensive, the hardest to schedule, and no help at 1 a.m. tonight. |
| Mendus | Neutral, private, and answers right now — but it's a reflection tool, not a therapist. |
Mendus doesn't replace therapy — if things are serious or keep repeating, see a professional.
One analysis is free every day, no card needed — enough to see whether this is useful to you. Premium removes the daily limit and unlocks Two-Way Bridge, the mode where you invite the other person. Cancel whenever you want.
It doesn't judge you as a person — it reads what each side actually said and did in this specific conflict. The verdict comes back as a split (for example 72% / 28%) with the reasoning behind it, so you can see why. In Two-Way Bridge both versions carry the same weight, and neither side gets a softer summary than the other. You can disagree with it. Plenty of people do, and that disagreement is usually a decent conversation starter.
No. In Two-Way Bridge neither of you sees the other's raw text — you each write privately, and only the verdict is shared. Your partner sees the conclusion, not your unfiltered draft of it.
Your conflicts are visible only to your account. Someone else can access one only if you personally send them an invite link, and those links expire after 7 days.
One analysis is free every day — that covers Mindful Mirror and screenshot analysis. Premium removes the daily limit and unlocks Two-Way Bridge, the mode where you invite your partner. Try the free analysis first and decide after.
Yes. Mindful Mirror and screenshot analysis are built for exactly that — one side, your account, no invite needed. You still get an outside read on your own position, including the parts that aren't working.
No. Mendus is an AI tool for reflection and communication — it is not psychotherapy, and not medical or legal advice. It can help you think more clearly and talk better. It can't treat anything, and it won't sit in the room with you.
The interface is available in 15 languages. Mendus runs as an iOS app and in any browser at mendus.app — same account either way.