Mendus: AI conflict mediator for couples
Mendus is an AI conflict mediator for couples: you describe an argument in your own words, with screenshots of the chat, or together with your partner through a private invite, and Mendus scores communication and empathy on each side, gives a verdict on who is closer to right, and suggests concrete next steps.
How it works
- Mirror. Describe what happened and what each of you said. Mendus looks at it from both sides.
- Evidence Vault. Upload screenshots of the conversation, and Mendus reads the messages themselves.
- Bridge. Invite your partner with a private link. Each of you tells your side separately, and Mendus weighs both.
- You get scores for communication, empathy and resolution, a verdict split in percent, the common ground you share, and phrases to restart the conversation.
Questions people ask
How do I settle an argument with my partner?
Write down what happened from both sides, then look at what each person did and said rather than who argues louder. Mendus does this for you: it separates the behavior itself from how each of you reacted, and explains its verdict in plain words.
Is there an app that tells who is right in an argument?
Yes. Mendus is an app for iPhone and the web that gives a reasoned verdict on a couple's argument, with a percentage split between the two sides instead of a bare winner.
Does Mendus just take my side?
No. Both people are scored by the same criteria, and the person telling the story can be found more at fault. When the chat cannot settle the main question, Mendus says so and suggests hearing the other side through Bridge.
Is Mendus a replacement for couples therapy?
No. Mendus helps with everyday disagreements. It is not therapy, and when a conflict involves threats, control or violence, it shows safety resources instead of a verdict.
Is it free?
You can try Mendus for free. A subscription unlocks more analyses and the two-sided Bridge mode.